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different.\uff08\u4f60\u7684\u8a71\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\uff09\u300d\u3002<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u7136\u800c\uff0c\u96d6\u7136\u9019\u500b\u53e5\u5b50\u5728\u6587\u6cd5\u4e0a\u4e26\u6c92\u6709\u932f\uff0c\u4f46\u5f88\u907a\u61be\u7684\u662f\uff0c\u5b83\u4e26\u4e0d\u80fd\u6b63\u78ba\u7684\u8868\u9054\u51fa\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u8a9e\u610f\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u90a3\u9ebc\uff0c\u5047\u4f7f\u6211\u5011\u8a66\u8457\u6539\u6210\u300cThat\u2019s a different story.\u300d\u5462\uff1f<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u6703\u76f4\u8b6f\u70ba\u300c\u90a3\u662f\u53e6\u5916\u4e00\u56de\u4e8b\u300d\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u610f\u601d\u4e5f\u662f\u5b8c\u5168\u4e0d\u540c\u3002<\/p>\n<p 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\/>\n\u6211\uff1a\u662f\u7684\uff0c\u6211\u62ff\u5230\u4e86\u3002<br \/>\n<strong>Husband: Great! Can I see?<\/strong><br \/>\n\u8001\u516c\uff1a\u592a\u597d\u4e86\uff01\u6211\u53ef\u4ee5\u770b\u4e00\u4e0b\u55ce\uff1f<br \/>\n<strong>Me: Of course. But there are 3 items instead of 2 items.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u6211\uff1a\u7576\u7136\u53ef\u4ee5\u3002\u4e0d\u904e\u6771\u897f\u6709\u4e09\u6a23\uff0c\u4e0d\u662f\u5169\u6a23\u3002<br \/>\n<strong>Husband: I know, I added one item that I wanted.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u8001\u516c\uff1a\u6211\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u6211\u6dfb\u52a0\u4e86\u4e00\u500b\u6a23\u60f3\u8981\u7684\u6771\u897f\u3002<br \/>\n<strong>Me: That\u2019s not what you said.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u6211\uff1a\u90a3\u4e0d\u662f\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u6240\u8aaa\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\uff08\uff1d\u9019\u8ddf\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u3127\u6a23\uff09<br \/>\n<strong>Husband: I know, sorry.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u8001\u516c\uff1a\u6211\u77e5\u9053\uff0c\u5c0d\u4e0d\u8d77\u3002<br \/>\n<strong>Me: You did again.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u6211\uff1a\u4f60\u53c8\u4f86\u4e86\uff08\u51b7\u975c\u7684\u8aaa\uff09<\/h5>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u5018\u82e5\u5c0d\u65b9\u4e00\u958b\u59cb\u5c31\u662f\u8aaa\u4e09\u6a23\uff0c\u90a3\u5c31\u4e0d\u6703\u6f14\u8b8a\u6210\u300c\u9019\u548c\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u60c5\u6cc1\u4e86\u5427\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u53e6\u5916\uff0c\u7576\u5927\u5bb6\u5b78\u6703\u4f7f\u7528\u300cThat\u2019s not what you said.\u300d\u5f8c\uff0c\u5c31\u53ef\u4ee5\u6b64\u70ba\u57fa\u790e\uff0c\u5ef6\u4f38\u51fa\u66f4\u591a\u5176\u4ed6\u53e5\u5b50\u4f86\u63cf\u8ff0\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4e4b\u524d\uff2f\uff2f\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u60c5\u5883\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u63a5\u4e0b\u4f86\uff0c\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u99ac\u4e0a\u4f86\u770b\u770b\u5176\u4ed6\u7684\u7bc4\u4f8b\u5427\uff01<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4e4b\u524d\uff2f\uff2f\u4e0d\u3127\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u5404\u7a2e\u8b8a\u5316\u53e5<\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u7576\u60a8\u719f\u7df4\u300cThat\u2019s not what you said.\u300d\u4e4b\u5f8c\uff0c\u53ea\u8981\u7a0d\u5fae\u6539\u8b8a\u300c\u53e5\u5c3e\u300d\u5c31\u80fd\u6839\u64da\u4e0d\u540c\u7684\u60c5\u5883\u66f4\u7cbe\u78ba\u5730\u8868\u9054\u51fa\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4e4b\u524d\uff2f\uff2f\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u610f\u601d\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u5176\u4e2d\uff0c\u70ba\u4e86\u80fd\u4f7f\u5927\u5bb6\u6b63\u78ba\u7684\u91dd\u5c0d\u6bcf\u7a2e\u60c5\u5883\uff0c\u6e96\u78ba\u5730\u8aaa\u51fa\u5408\u9069\u7684\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4e4b\u524d\uff2f\uff2f\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\uff0c\u8acb\u5927\u5bb6\u7279\u5225\u6ce8\u610f\u300cThat\u2019s not what\u300d\u5f8c\u9762\u63a5\u7684\u90e8\u5206\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u4ee5\u4e0b\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u5c07\u6839\u64da\u4e0a\u6587\u63d0\u5230\u7684\u6703\u4f7f\u7528\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u4e09\u500b\u5834\u666f\u3001\u5206\u5225\u8aaa\u660e\u300c\u76f8\u5c0d\u61c9\u7684\u6b63\u78ba\u82f1\u8a9e\u300d\u8a72\u5982\u4f55\u8868\u9054\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u8acb\u5927\u5bb6\u52d9\u5fc5\u53c3\u8003\u4ee5\u4e0b\u4f8b\u53e5\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><strong>1) That\u2019s not what I expected.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u9019\u662f\u4f7f\u7528\u4e86\u300cexpect\uff08\u671f\u5f85\u3001\u9810\u671f\uff09\u300d\u9019\u500b\u52d5\u8a5e\u7684\u8868\u9054\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u7576\u7d50\u679c\u8207\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u300c\u671f\u5f85\u7684\u300d\u4e0d\u4e00\u81f4\u6642\uff0c\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u4fbf\u53ef\u50b3\u9054\u51fa\u81ea\u5df1\u5167\u5fc3\u5931\u671b\u7684\u60c5\u7dd2\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u5927\u5bb6\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u5c07\u300cexpected\u300d\u63db\u6210\u300choped\uff08\u5e0c\u671b\uff09\u300d\u4f86\u4f7f\u7528\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<h5 dir=\"ltr\"><strong>My boyfriend and I broke up. That\u2019s not what I expected as we started looking for an apartment where we can live together.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u6211\u548c\u7537\u670b\u53cb\u5206\u624b\u4e86\u3002\u9019\u548c\u6211\u4e4b\u524d\u671f\u5f85\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u56e0\u70ba\u6211\u5011\u5176\u5be6\u5df2\u7d93\u958b\u59cb\u627e\u4e00\u8d77\u4f4f\u7684\u516c\u5bd3\u4e86\u3002<br \/>\n\uff08\u8a3b\uff1abroke up\uff1d\u5206\u624b\uff09<\/h5>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u5018\u82e5\u5927\u5bb6\u9047\u5230\u660e\u660e\u90fd\u5df2\u7d93\u4e00\u8d77\u958b\u59cb\u627e\u516c\u5bd3\u4e86\uff0c\u7d50\u679c\u537b\u767c\u73fe\u5c0d\u65b9\u8b8a\u5fc3\u7684\u60c5\u6cc1\uff0c\u78ba\u5be6\u6703\u8b93\u4eba\u5fcd\u4e0d\u4f4f\u60f3\u8aaa\u300c\u898b\u9b3c\u4e86\uff5e\u628a\u6211\u7684\u6642\u9593\u9084\u4f86\u300d\u5427\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u4e0d\u904e\uff0c\u6211\u5011\u4e5f\u76f8\u4fe1\u5728\u672a\u4f86\u7684\u67d0\u4e00\u5929\uff0c\u60a8\u7a81\u7136\u6703\u767c\u73fe\u300c\u9019\u6a23\u4e5f\u597d\u300d\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<h5 dir=\"ltr\"><strong>That\u2019s not what we expected \u2013 you leaving your job that early.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u9019\u548c\u6211\u5011\u4e4b\u524d\u671f\u671b\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u4f60\u9019\u9ebc\u5feb\u5c31\u8fad\u8077\u4e86\u3002<\/h5>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u9019\u662f\u5f9e\u96c7\u4e3b\u65b9\u7684\u7acb\u5834\u4f86\u8868\u9054\u7684\u4e00\u53e5\u8a71\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u8acb\u5927\u5bb6\u5728\u8003\u616e\u8fad\u8077\u6642\uff0c\u8a18\u5f97\u78ba\u8a8d\u4e00\u4e0b\u96c7\u7528\u5951\u7d04\u4e2d\u662f\u5426\u6709\u6700\u4f4e\u5de5\u4f5c\u671f\u9593\u7684\u689d\u6b3e\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u82e5\u8981\u5728\u5951\u7d04\u671f\u6eff\u524d\u8fad\u8077\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u901a\u5e38\u52de\u65b9\u5fc5\u9808\u6709\u76f8\u7576\u6b63\u7576\u7684\u7406\u7531\u624d\u884c\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u300cexpected\u300d\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u53ef\u7528\u65bc\u6bd4\u671f\u5f85\u9084\u8981\u597d\u7684\u60c5\u5883\u4e2d\uff0c\u4f46\u4e5f\u80fd\u4f7f\u7528\u65bc\u8ca0\u9762\u8a9e\u610f\u7684\u8a5e\u5f59\u3002\u8acb\u5927\u5bb6\u52d9\u5fc5\u8a18\u8457\u9019\u4e00\u9ede\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><strong>2) That\u2019s not what I heard.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u5927\u5bb6\u61c9\u8a72\u90fd\u6709\u4e0d\u5c11\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u6211\u4e4b\u524d\u807d\u5230\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u7d93\u9a57\u5427\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u4e0a\u6587\u4e2d\u4ecb\u7d39\u7684\u300cThat\u2019s not what you said.\u300d\u662f\u91dd\u5c0d\u300c\u5c0d\u65b9\u6240\u8aaa\u7684\u5167\u5bb9\u300d\uff0c\u800c\u300cThat\u2019s not what I heard.\u300d\u5247\u662f\u4ee5\u300c\u81ea\u5df1\u6240\u807d\u5230\u7684\u5167\u5bb9\u300d\u70ba\u4e3b\u8a9e\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u5169\u8005\u7684\u300c\u4e3b\u8a5e\u300d\u6b63\u597d\u662f\u76f8\u53cd\u7684\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<h5 dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Do I have to pay more for my mobile phone? That\u2019s not what I heard.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u6211\u662f\u5426\u9700\u8981\u70ba\u6211\u7684\u624b\u6a5f\u652f\u4ed8\u66f4\u591a\u8cbb\u7528\u5462\uff1f\u9019\u548c\u6211\u4e4b\u524d\u807d\u5230\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u3002<\/h5>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u8cfc\u7269\u3001\u6216\u7c3d\u7d04\u6642\uff0c\u8acb\u4e00\u5b9a\u8981\u4ed4\u7d30\u95b1\u8b80\u90a3\u4e9b\u7528\u5c0f\u5b57\u5beb\u7684\u689d\u6b3e\u5167\u5bb9\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<h5 dir=\"ltr\"><strong>That\u2019s not what we heard. You said you will look after the dog. That\u2019s why we bought one.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u9019\u548c\u6211\u4e4b\u524d\u807d\u5230\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u3002\u4f60\u8aaa\u904e\u4f60\u6703\u7167\u9867\u9019\u96bb\u72d7\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u6211\u5011\u624d\u8cb7\u4e86\u4e00\u96bb\u3002<\/h5>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u5c0f\u670b\u53cb\u5435\u8457\u300c\u6211\u60f3\u990a\u72d7\u300d\u3001\u300c\u6211\u4e00\u5b9a\u6703\u597d\u597d\u7167\u9867\u7260\u300d\uff0c\u7d50\u679c\u6bcf\u5929\u5e36\u5c0f\u72d7\u6563\u6b65\u7684\u9084\u662f\u7238\u5abd\u7684\u60c5\u6cc1\u61c9\u8a72\u4e0d\u5c11\u5427\u2026\u3002<\/p>\n<h3 dir=\"ltr\"><strong>3) That\u2019s not what we agreed on.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u53ef\u7528\u65bc\u300c\u548c\u4e4b\u524d\u7d04\u5b9a\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u3001\u300c\u8207\u6211\u5011\u540c\u610f\u7684\u5167\u5bb9\u4e0d\u540c\u300d\u7b49\u5834\u5408\u4e2d\u3002\u7279\u5225\u662f\u5546\u52d9\u5834\u5408\u4e2d\uff0c\u9019\u500b\u8868\u9054\u5c31\u5e38\u51fa\u73fe\u5728\u96d9\u65b9\u8ac7\u5224\u7684\u5c0d\u8a71\u88e1\u3002<\/p>\n<h5 dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Excuse me. That\u2019s not what we agreed.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u62b1\u6b49\uff0c\u9019\u548c\u6211\u5011\u4e4b\u524d\u540c\u610f\u7684\u5167\u5bb9\u4e0d\u540c\u3002<\/h5>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u4e0d\u6e05\u695a\u8aaa\u660e\u5f7c\u6b64\u7684\u610f\u898b\uff0c\u662f\u6703\u4f7f\u5546\u696d\u95dc\u4fc2\u7121\u6cd5\u9806\u5229\u9032\u884c\u7684\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u4e0d\u904e\uff0c\u7576\u5927\u5bb6\u60f3\u8868\u9054\u300c\u8ddf\u4e4b\u524d\u7684\u5167\u5bb9\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u6642\uff0c\u63d0\u51fa\u8a18\u9304\u3001\u6216\u5ba2\u89c0\u8b49\u64da\u662f\u4e00\u4ef6\u76f8\u7576\u91cd\u8981\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u3002\u8207\u5176\u8aaa\u9019\u662f\u70ba\u4e86\u6307\u8cac\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u9084\u4e0d\u5982\u8aaa\u9019\u662f\u96d9\u65b9\u5354\u5546\u3001\u4e26\u9032\u800c\u4fc3\u4f7f\u96d9\u65b9\u5408\u4f5c\u95dc\u4fc2\u66f4\u52a0\u878d\u6d3d\u7684\u4e00\u7a2e\u884c\u70ba\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<h5 dir=\"ltr\"><strong>Could you please explain why the cost is more expensive? That\u2019s not what we agreed on.<\/strong><br \/>\n\u53ef\u4ee5\u8acb\u60a8\u8aaa\u660e\u4e00\u4e0b\u70ba\u4ec0\u9ebc\u8cbb\u7528\u66f4\u9ad8\u4e86\u55ce\uff1f\u9019\u548c\u6211\u5011\u4e4b\u524d\u540c\u610f\u7684\u5167\u5bb9\u4e0d\u540c\u3002<\/h5>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u7576\u5c0d\u65b9\u5728\u8cbb\u7528\u3001\u4ea4\u8ca8\u671f\u9650\u2026\u7b49\u65b9\u9762\u7684\u8aaa\u6cd5\u8207\u539f\u5148\u4e0d\u540c\u6642\uff0c\u5c31\u5fc5\u9808\u597d\u597d\u554f\u6e05\u695a\u3001\u4e26\u8acb\u4ed6\u5011\u8aaa\u660e\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">\u4ecb\u7d39\u53ef\u4ee5\u914d\u5408\u56de\u61c9\u300c\u8ddf\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u8868\u9054\u65b9\u5f0f<\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u7576\u5927\u5bb6\u5167\u5fc3\u767c\u8d77\u300c\u6b38\uff01\u9019\u8ddf\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u6642\uff0c\u5167\u5fc3\u7e3d\u662f\u647b\u96dc\u8457\u5404\u7a2e\u60c5\u7dd2\u5427\uff01\u6b64\u6642\uff0c\u4ee5\u4e0b\u9019\u4e9b\u53ef\u642d\u914d\u8457\u4f7f\u7528\u7684\u56de\u61c9\u5c07\u6703\u975e\u5e38\u5be6\u7528\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>1. Is that so?\uff08\u662f\u9019\u6a23\u55ce\uff1f \/ \u771f\u7684\u55ce\uff1f\uff09<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u9019\u662f\u4e00\u53e5\u80fd\u8b93\u5c0d\u65b9\u518d\u91cd\u65b0\u601d\u8003\u4e00\u6b21\u7684\u7591\u554f\u53e5\u3001\u4e26\u6bd4\u76f4\u63a5\u8aaa\u300c\u9019\u548c\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u4f86\u5f97\u67d4\u548c\u4e00\u4e9b\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>2. I don\u2019t think so.\uff08\u6211\u4e0d\u9019\u9ebc\u8a8d\u70ba \/ \u6211\u89ba\u5f97\u4e0d\u662f\u9019\u6a23\uff09<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u5018\u82e5\u5148\u8868\u9054\u300c\u6211\u4e0d\u9019\u9ebc\u8a8d\u70ba\u300d\uff0c\u518d\u63a5\u8457\u8aaa\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u4fbf\u80fd\u9054\u5230\u96d9\u91cd\u5426\u5b9a\u7684\u6548\u679c\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>3. I can\u2019t accept it.\uff08\u6211\u7121\u6cd5\u63a5\u53d7\uff09<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u7576\u60a8\u89ba\u5f97\u4e8b\u60c5\u8ddf\u8aaa\u597d\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u800c\u4e14\u5be6\u5728\u6c92\u8fa6\u6cd5\u63a5\u53d7\u6642\uff0c\u5c31\u53ef\u4f7f\u7528\u4ee5\u4e0a\u9019\u53e5\u8868\u9054\u65b9\u5f0f\u3002\u6b64\u5916\uff0c\u5927\u5bb6\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u8aaa\u6210\u300cI can\u2019t accept what you said.\u300d\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>4. Give me a break.\uff08\u62dc\u8a17\u9952\u4e86\u6211\u5427\uff01\uff09<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u597d\u6bd4\u7b46\u8005\u8001\u516c\u7684\u90a3\u7a2e\u60c5\u6cc1\uff0c\u5018\u82e5\u5c0d\u65b9\u8001\u662f\u91cd\u8907\u540c\u6a23\u7684\u932f\u8aa4\uff0c\u5c31\u6703\u8b93\u4eba\u5fcd\u4e0d\u4f4f\u60f3\u8aaa\u9019\u53e5\u8a71\u560d\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>5. That\u2019s enough.\uff08\u5920\u4e86\u5594\uff01\uff09<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u96d6\u7136\u5b83\u548c\u300cGive me a break.\u300d\u7684\u610f\u601d\u985e\u4f3c\uff0c\u4f46\u66f4\u5e36\u6709\u5f37\u70c8\u8a9e\u610f\u3001\u4e26\u76f8\u7576\u9069\u5408\u7528\u5728\u60a8\u5df2\u7d93\u7121\u6cd5\u5fcd\u8010\u7684\u60c5\u666f\u4e2d\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>6. No way!\uff08\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\uff01\/ \u600e\u9ebc\u53ef\u80fd\uff01\uff09<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u9019\u662f\u4e00\u53e5\u8f03\u53e3\u8a9e\u5316\u7684\u8868\u9054\u65b9\u5f0f\u3001\u4e26\u985e\u4f3c\u4e2d\u6587\u88e1\u7684\u300c\u771f\u7684\u5047\u7684\uff01\u3001\u4e0d\u53ef\u80fd\u5427\uff01\u300d\u3002\u5018\u82e5\u5927\u5bb6\u9047\u5230\u7684\u4e8b\u60c5\u548c\u9810\u671f\u76f8\u5dee\u751a\u9060\u6642\uff0c\u4fbf\u53ef\u5c07\u5b83\u4f5c\u70ba\u958b\u5834\u767d\u4f7f\u7528\u5594\uff01<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\"><strong>7. It was crystal clear to me.\uff08\u9019\u5c0d\u6211\u4f86\u8aaa\u975e\u5e38\u6e05\u695a \/ \u6211\u53ef\u662f\u975e\u5e38\u6e05\u695a\u7684\uff09<\/strong><\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u7576\u5c0d\u65b9\u932f\u5f97\u592a\u96e2\u8b5c\uff0c\u800c\u60a8\u537b\u5f88\u78ba\u5b9a\u81ea\u5df1\u662f\u5c0d\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u4fbf\u53ef\u4f7f\u7528\u9019\u53e5\u4f86\u5f37\u8abf\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u7acb\u5834\u3002<\/p>\n<p dir=\"ltr\">\u5176\u4e2d\u300ccrystal clear\u300d\u662f\u82f1\u570b\u4eba\u5e38\u7528\u7684\u6709\u8da3\u8868\u9054\u65b9\u5f0f\u3001\u4e26\u4ee3\u8868\u300c\u975e\u5e38\u660e\u78ba\u3001\u6e05\u6e05\u695a\u695a\u300d\u7684\u610f\u601d\u3002<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 dir=\"ltr\">\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d \u7e3d\u7d50<\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p 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\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u3127\u6a23\u300d\u4e2d\u300c\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\u300d\u7684\u6b63\u78ba\u82f1\u8a9e\u8868\u73fe &nbsp; \u7576\u5927\u5bb6\u8166\u6d77\u4e2d\u6d6e\u73fe\u300c\u9019\u8ddf\u4f60\u4e4b\u524d\u8aaa\u7684\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\uff01\u300d\u6642\uff0c\u80fd\u99ac\u4e0a\u8aaa\u51fa\u6b63\u78ba\u7684\u82f1\u8a9e\u8868\u9054\u55ce\uff1f \u6211\u5011\u60f3\uff0c\u6709\u6642\u5927\u5bb6\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u56e0\u592a\u904e\u5931\u671b\u3001\u6216\u592a\u904e\u9707\u9a5a\uff0c\u800c\u4e00\u6642\u5f88\u96e3\u628a\u81ea\u5df1\u7684\u60f3\u6cd5\u6b63\u78ba\u7684\u50b3\u9054\u7d66\u5c0d\u65b9\u5427\uff01 \u5176\u4e2d\uff0c\u5927\u591a\u6578\u7684\u4eba\u6703\u6d6e\u73fe\u7684\u55ae\u5b57\u662f\u300c\u8aaa\u7684\u8a71\uff1d story\u300d\uff0c\u300c\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\uff1ddifferent\u300d\u3001\u4e26\u7d44\u5408\u6210\u300cYour story is different.\uff08\u4f60\u7684\u8a71\u4e0d\u4e00\u6a23\uff09\u300d\u3002 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