{"id":11583,"date":"2025-02-25T13:06:35","date_gmt":"2025-02-25T05:06:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nativecamp.net\/zh-tw\/blog\/?p=11583"},"modified":"2025-02-26T09:06:58","modified_gmt":"2025-02-26T01:06:58","slug":"%e4%bd%a0%e7%9f%a5%e9%81%93%e3%80%8c%e6%81%ad%e7%b6%ad%e3%80%8d%e7%9a%84%e8%8b%b1%e6%96%87%e6%80%8e%e9%ba%bc%e8%aa%aa%e5%97%8e%ef%bc%9f","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nativecamp.net\/zh-tw\/blog\/11583\/","title":{"rendered":"\u4f60\u77e5\u9053\u300c\u606d\u7dad\u300d\u7684\u82f1\u6587\u600e\u9ebc\u8aaa\u55ce\uff1f"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u5404\u4f4d\u77e5\u9053\u300c\u606d\u7dad\u300d\u7684\u82f1\u6587\u600e\u9ebc\u8aaa\u55ce\uff1f<\/span><\/p>\n

\u4e0d\u7ba1\u662f\u65e5\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u9084\u662f\u8077\u5834\u4e0a\uff0c\u4e0d\u6642\u9700\u8981\u8aaa\u4e9b\u8b93\u5834\u9762\u71b1\u7d61\u7684\u597d\u807d\u8a71\uff0c\u4f8b\u5982\u300c\u771f\u53b2\u5bb3\uff01\u300d\u6216\u662f\u300c\u4eca\u5929\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u597d\u6f02\u4eae\uff01\u300d\u7b49\u7b49\u3002<\/span>
\n<\/span>\u9019\u7a2e\u300c\u5949\u627f\u5225\u4eba\u7684\u597d\u807d\u8a71\u300d\u7a76\u7adf\u8981\u5982\u4f55\u7528\u82f1\u6587\u8868\u793a\u5462\uff1f<\/span><\/p>\n

\u672c\u6587\u6703\u4ee5<\/span>\u300c\u606d\u7dad\u300d\u70ba\u4e3b\u984c\uff0c\u642d\u914d\u4f8b\u53e5\u70ba\u5404\u4f4d\u5fb9\u5e95\u8aaa\u660e\u5b83\u7684\u5404\u7a2e\u82f1\u6587\u7528\u6cd5\uff01<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u5176\u4ed6\u985e\u4f3c\u7684\u8868\u9054\u65b9\u5f0f\u9084\u6709\u5f88\u591a\uff0c\u5305\u542b\u300c\u8ac2\u5a9a\u300d\u3001\u300c\u62cd\u99ac\u5c41\u300d\u7b49\u7b49\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u90fd\u5927\u540c\u5c0f\u7570\uff0c\u4ee5\u4e0b\u90fd\u6703\u4e00\u4e00\u4ecb\u7d39\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u4ec0\u9ebc\u53eb\u606d\u7dad<\/b><\/h2>\n

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\u4e0d\u8ad6\u662f\u5728\u65e5\u5e38\u751f\u6d3b\u4e2d\u6216\u662f\u5de5\u4f5c\u8077\u5834\u4e0a\uff0c\u6709\u5f88\u591a\u5834\u5408\u90fd\u9700\u8981\u61c2\u5f97\u8b9a\u7f8e\u7684\u85dd\u8853\u3002\u4e0d\u904e\u8aaa\u5230\u606d\u7dad\u9019\u500b\u8a5e\uff0c\u5b83\u5c6c\u65bc\u504f\u8ca0\u9762\u7684\u6982\u5ff5\uff0c\u8aaa\u7a7f\u4e86\u5c31\u53ea\u662f\u4e00\u7a2e\u975e\u771f\u5fc3\u7684\u5949\u627f\u8a71\u800c\u5df2\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

\u4e0d\u904e\uff0c\u5176\u5be6\u5b83\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u7528\u5728\u4e2d\u6027\u7684\u8868\u9054\u4e0a\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

\u4f8b\u5982\u88ab\u7a31\u8b9a\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u807d\u5230\u6709\u4eba\u8aaa\u300c\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u9019\u9ebc\u606d\u7dad\u6211\u5566\uff01\u300d\uff0c\u9019\u7d55\u5c0d\u4e0d\u662f\u5728\u53cd\u8af7\u5c0d\u65b9\u53ea\u662f\u865b\u60c5\u5047\u610f\uff0c\u55ae\u7d14\u662f\u628a\u606d\u7dad\u7576\u6210\u7a31\u8b9a\u7684\u66ff\u4ee3\u8aaa\u6cd5\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

\u56de\u5230\u4e3b\u984c\uff0c\u90a3\u9ebc\u82f1\u6587\u88e1\u9762\u5230\u5e95\u6709\u90a3\u4e9b\u53ef\u4ee5\u8868\u793a\u606d\u7dad\u7684\u7528\u6cd5\u5462\uff1f\u4ee5\u4e0b\u70ba\u5404\u4f4d\u6574\u7406\u4e86\u4e09\u7a2e\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

\u30fbflattery<\/b>
\n\u30fbcompliment<\/b>
\n\u30fbfalse praise<\/b><\/h6>\n

\u63a5\u4e0b\u4f86\uff0c\u5c31\u8b93\u6211\u5011\u4f86\u770b\u770b\u5b83\u5011\u7684\u5404\u5225\u610f\u601d\u548c\u7528\u6cd5\u5427\uff01<\/span><\/p>\n

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flattery<\/b><\/h3>\n

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flattery\uff1a\u606d\u7dad\u3001\u5949\u627f<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u5b83\u662f\u4e00\u500b\u540d\u8a5e\uff0c\u52d5\u8a5e\u5f62\u5f0f\u5247\u662f\u201cflatter\u201d\uff0c\u4e5f\u662f\u540c\u6a23\u7684\u610f\u601d\uff0c\u8acb\u770b\u4e0b\u9762\u4f8b\u53e5\u7528\u6cd5\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

He is all flattery and is seen as amiable by everyone.<\/b>
\n\u4ed6\u5f88\u61c2\u5f97\u5949\u627f\uff0c\u56e0\u6b64\u6bcf\u500b\u4eba\u90fd\u89ba\u5f97\u4ed6\u975e\u5e38\u548c\u5584\u3002<\/span>
\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
I didn’t want to be a person who only flattered people like her.<\/b>
\n\u6211\u4e26\u4e0d\u60f3\u6210\u70ba\u50cf\u5979\u4e00\u6a23\u5149\u6703\u963f\u8adb\u5949\u627f\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/span>
\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
My mother told me that flattery is not a bad thing.<\/b>
\n\u5abd\u5abd\u544a\u8a34\u6211\u8a0e\u597d\u5225\u4eba\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u4e00\u4ef6\u58de\u4e8b\u3002<\/span>
\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
I didn’t mean to flatter her, but I was surprised when she gave me an angry look and said, “Thanks for the flattery.\u201d<\/b>
\n\u6211\u7684\u672c\u610f\u4e26\u4e0d\u662f\u8981\u5949\u627f\u5979\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u6211\u975e\u5e38\u9a5a\u8a1d\u770b\u5230\u5979\u751f\u6c23\uff0c\u9084\u5c0d\u6211\u8aaa\u300c\u8b1d\u8b1d\u4f60\u7684\u5834\u9762\u8a71\u5594\uff01\u300d\u3002<\/span>
\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
I was taught that in order to convey one’s honest feelings in love, one should use one’s own words to convey one’s true feelings, not flattery.<\/b>
\n\u6709\u4eba\u6559\u904e\u6211\uff0c\u5728\u611b\u60c5\u4e2d\u70ba\u4e86\u5c07\u6700\u771f\u5be6\u7684\u60c5\u611f\u50b3\u9054\u7d66\u5c0d\u65b9\uff0c\u61c9\u8a72\u8981\u628a\u771f\u5fc3\u8a71\u8aaa\u51fa\u4f86\uff0c\u800c\u4e0d\u662f\u53ea\u8b1b\u597d\u807d\u8a71\u3002<\/span>
\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
She knew she was being flattered, but she was happy to hear, “You are beautiful,” and she went home in a good mood.<\/b>
\n\u5979\u96d6\u7136\u77e5\u9053\u5c0d\u65b9\u53ea\u662f\u5728\u5949\u627f\u5979\uff0c\u9084\u662f\u5f88\u9ad8\u8208\u807d\u5230\u300c\u4f60\u5f88\u6f02\u4eae\u300d\u9019\u7a2e\u8a71\uff0c\u6240\u4ee5\u958b\u5fc3\u5730\u56de\u5bb6\u4e86\u3002<\/span><\/h5>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

compliment<\/b><\/h3>\n

 <\/p>\n

compliment\uff1a\u8b9a\u7f8e\u3001\u606d\u7dad<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

A\uff1aYou are always youthful and enviable! Do you do anything special to your skin?<\/b>
\nB\uff1aPlease don’t flatter me! Compliments will get you nowhere.<\/b>
\n\u4f60\u7e3d\u662f\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u9019\u9ebc\u5e74\u8f15\uff0c\u771f\u53eb\u4eba\u7fa8\u6155\uff01\u4f60\u6709\u5728\u505a\u4ec0\u9ebc\u7279\u5225\u7684\u808c\u819a\u4fdd\u990a\u55ce\uff1f<\/span>
\n\u4e0d\u9700\u8981\u62cd\u6211\u7684\u99ac\u5c41\uff01\u5c0d\u6211\u6c92\u7528\u7684\u3002<\/span>
\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
A\uff1aThose clothes are very nice! Where did you buy it?<\/b>
\nB\uff1aI actually made these clothes myself!<\/b>
\nA\uff1aThis is the level sold at the store!<\/b>
\nB\uff1aYou flatter me very well! I am very happy with the compliment.<\/b>
\n\u90a3\u4e9b\u8863\u670d\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u771f\u4e0d\u932f\uff0c\u4f60\u5728\u54ea\u88e1\u8cb7\u7684\u5462\uff1f<\/span>
\n\u5176\u5be6\u662f\u6211\u81ea\u5df1\u505a\u7684\u3002<\/span>
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\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
He often buys beautiful flowers and compliments his wife to put her in a good mood.<\/b>
\n\u4ed6\u5e38\u70ba\u4e86\u8a0e\u592a\u592a\u6b61\u5fc3\uff0c\u8cb7\u6f02\u4eae\u7684\u82b1\u7d66\u5979\u6216\u662f\u8aaa\u4e00\u4e9b\u8b9a\u7f8e\u7684\u8a71\u3002<\/span><\/h5>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

false praise<\/b><\/h3>\n

 <\/p>\n

false praise\uff1a\u865b\u5047\u7684\u606d\u7dad\u3001\u7a31\u8b9a<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

There is no need to believe those who give you false praise.<\/b>
\n\u6c92\u6709\u5fc5\u8981\u53bb\u76f8\u4fe1\u90a3\u4e9b\u7d66\u4f60\u865b\u5047\u606d\u7dad\u7684\u4eba\u3002<\/span>
\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
A\uff1aYour face is really pretty and you look like a model.<\/b>
\nB\uff1aThat’s false praise! But I am very happy, thank you.<\/b>
\n\u4f60\u9577\u5f97\u597d\u6f02\u4eae\uff0c\u770b\u8d77\u4f86\u5c31\u50cf\u6a21\u7279\u5152\u4e00\u6a23\u3002<\/span>
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\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
Mother, what is the right way to respond when I get false praise?<\/b>
\n\u5abd\u5abd\uff0c\u7576\u5225\u4eba\u5c0d\u6211\u8aaa\u4e00\u4e9b\u5834\u9762\u8a71\u7684\u6642\u5019\uff0c\u61c9\u8a72\u8981\u600e\u9ebc\u56de\u61c9\u5462\uff1f<\/span><\/h5>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u53e3\u8a9e\u8868\u73fe\u65b9\u5f0f<\/b><\/h2>\n

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\u90a3\u7528\u82f1\u6587\u8981\u5982\u4f55\u8868\u73fe\u5462\uff1f<\/span><\/p>\n

\u300c\u62cd\u99ac\u5c41\u300d\u7684\u82f1\u6587\u53ef\u4ee5\u7528<\/span>\u201cbutter up\u201d<\/b><\/span>\u4f86\u8868\u793a\uff0c\u4ee5\u4e0b\u4f86\u770b\u770b\u5b83\u7684\u8a73\u7d30\u8aaa\u660e\uff01<\/span><\/p>\n

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butter up<\/b><\/h3>\n

 <\/p>\n

butter up\uff1a\u8a0e\u597d\uff5e\u3001\u5949\u627f\uff5e<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

butter up\u6309\u7167\u76f4\u8b6f\u4f86\u89e3\u91cb\u662f\u300c\u5857\u4e0a\u5976\u6cb9\u300d\u7684\u610f\u601d\uff0c\u6bd4\u55bb\u5634\u4e0a\u50cf\u5857\u4e86\u5976\u6cb9\u4e00\u6a23\uff0c\u6d41\u66a2\u5730\u4e0d\u65b7\u8aaa\u51fa\u5404\u7a2e\u597d\u807d\u8a71\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

I don’t think there is anything wrong with buttering up your boss.<\/b>
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\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u985e\u4f3c\u7528\u6cd5<\/b><\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

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\u8ac2\u5a9a<\/b>
\n\u30fbsuck up<\/b>
\n<\/b><\/h6>\n
\u62cd\u99ac\u5c41<\/b>
\n\u30fbapple-polisher<\/b>
\n\u30fbyes-man<\/b>
\n\u30fblick someone’s boots<\/b><\/h6>\n

\u4ee5\u4e0b\u4e00\u4e00\u8a73\u7d30\u8aaa\u660e\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

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\u8ac2\u5a9a\u3000suck up<\/b><\/h3>\n

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suck up\uff1a\u62cd\u99ac\u5c41\u3001\u8a0e\u597d<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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Suck up\u53ef\u4ee5\u6309\u7167\u5b83\u539f\u672c\u7684\u5b57\u9762\u610f\u601d\u89e3\u91cb\u6210\u300c\u5438\u8d77\u4f86\u300d\uff0c\u4e0d\u904e\u4e5f\u53ef\u4ee5\u7528\u4f86\u8868\u793a\u300c\u62cd\u99ac\u5c41\u300d\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

He sucks up to his teachers every day.<\/b>
\n\u4ed6\u6bce\u5929\u90fd\u5728\u5df4\u7d50\u8001\u5e2b\u3002<\/span><\/h5>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u62cd\u99ac\u5c41\u3000apple-polisher\u3001yes-man\u3001lick someone’s boots<\/b><\/h3>\n

 <\/p>\n

apple-polisher\uff1a\u99ac\u5c41\u7cbe<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u201cAn apple a day keeps the doctor away.\u201d<\/b>
\n\u4e00\u5929\u4e00\u860b\u679c\uff0c\u91ab\u751f\u9060\u96e2\u4f60\u3002<\/b><\/h6>\n

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He consulted with his teacher because someone told him that he was an apple-polisher.<\/b>
\nThe teacher said there is nothing wrong with giving false praise to someone, but we should think about how often we say compliments.<\/b>
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\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Yes-man\uff1a\u61c9\u8072\u87f2\u3001\u53ea\u6703\u9644\u548c\u7684\u4eba<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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\u4e0d\u77e5\u9053\u4f60\u6709\u6c92\u6709\u770b\u904e\u91d1\u51f1\u745e\u4e3b\u6f14\u7684\u559c\u5287\u7247\u300c\u6c92\u554f\u984c\u5148\u751f\u300d\uff0c\u5b83\u7684\u82f1\u6587\u7247\u540d\u5c31\u53eb\u505aYes Man\uff0c\u76f8\u7576\u63a8\u85a6\u53bb\u627e\u4f86\u770b\u770b\uff01<\/span><\/p>\n

He is considered a yes-man at work because he always accepts his boss’s requests.<\/b>
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\n<\/b><\/h5>\n
I heard from someone that being a yes man might give you a chance to be happy.<\/b>
\n\u6211\u807d\u8aaa\u8a66\u8457\u5c0d\u4efb\u4f55\u4e8b\u90fd\u8aaa\u300c\u597d\u300d\u7684\u8a71\uff0c\u53ef\u80fd\u6703\u8b8a\u5f97\u66f4\u5feb\u6a02\u3002<\/span><\/h5>\n

\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

lick someone’s boots\uff1a\u62cd\u99ac\u5c41\u3001\u8ac2\u5a9a<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

\u5b83\u7684\u76f4\u8b6f\u89e3\u91cb\u662f\u300c\u8214\u67d0\u4eba\u7684\u9774\u5b50\u300d\uff0c\u8868\u793a\u6975\u76e1\u5949\u627f\u4e4b\u80fd\u4e8b\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

\u8d81\u9019\u500b\u6a5f\u6703\uff0c\u53ef\u4ee5\u9806\u4fbf\u628a\u201cLick\u201d\u9019\u500b\u8868\u793a\u300c\u8214\u300d\u7684\u52d5\u8a5e\u5b78\u8d77\u4f86\u3002<\/span><\/p>\n

You are always licking your boss’s boots.<\/b>
\n\u4f60\u4e00\u5929\u5230\u665a\u90fd\u5728\u62cd\u8001\u95c6\u7684\u99ac\u5c41\u3002<\/span><\/h5>\n

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\u7e3d\u7d50<\/b><\/h2>\n

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